HD At-Risk Preparation Checklist
By Philip Hardt
From the Fall/Winter 2003
issue of Hopes & Dreams, newsletter of the Illinois Chapter, Huntington's
Disease Society of America.
Many who are "at-risk" ask me to recommend how to prepare for the
50% chance that they will become
symptomatic with HD. My simple answer is, "prepare like you are going to
get it and live like you will not!" By
doing this, you are in no way admitting that you will get HD, you are simply
being proactive by minimizing
the financial and emotional damage that can result from HD if you are not adequately
prepared.
A dear friend said, "This is not your father's HD. It is out of the closet,
in your face, here and now." We can
no longer bury our heads in the sand and hope for a better day – WE must
take responsibility for that day
NOW for ourselves and our loved ones. I am recommending some difficult changes
NOW because I know
all too well that if you procrastinate, and HD begins adversely affecting your
insight, emotions, judgment,
you may not see the need for change and you could end up lost and unprepared.
I wish with all my heart
that you were not at-risk, but you are, so lets look it right in the face. The
following are common sense steps
to protect you and your family – just in case:
- Sign up for short-term (STD) and long-term disability (LTD) insurance with
your employer.
Most companies offer open enrollment times when you can add or delete coverage
with no
questions asked. Then, if you can no longer work because of ANY disability,
including HD, you will
continue receiving the same amount of money as when you were working full-time!
- Sign up for the maximum amount of life insurance possible without having
to show proof of
insurability with your employer.
- Add two riders onto your life insurance policy which usually do not cost
extra: 1) Children's
Rider provides $10,000 coverage per child, which they can convert at age 18
to their own $50,000
policy WITHOUT showing proof of insurability. If you are HD positive, your
children are then at-risk
and they may not be able to get their own policy. 2) An Accelerated Benefits
Rider allows you to use
up to 50% of the face value of your policy to pay for nursing home care, if
necessary.
- Stay with your current employer if you are already tenured, or if you are
close to reaching
your 10-year anniversary with the company. If you have 10 years of service
before becoming
disabled, AND you are covered by STD and LTD, you will continue your current
medical, dental,
vision and mental health benefits, at the same amount as you are currently
paying, for as long as
you are disabled. In addition, you will continue accruing service time towards
retirement as long as
you are disabled.
- Obtain as much education and/or marketable trade skills as possible so
you can work for a
company which offers group benefits. Group benefits are usually less expensive
and you do not
have to show "proof of insurability" when signing up for the policy.
- Encourage your spouse or partner to complete their education also. If something
happens to
you and they must work, he/she will be able to find a nicer and better paying
job if they are prepared.
- If you are self-employed, these types of insurances may be unaffordable
because of the cost
and possible requirements to show "proof of insurability." If you
indicate on your application
that there is HD in your family, you are likely to either be denied insurance
or offered a policy with
extremely expensive monthly premiums. On the other hand, if you do not answer
all questions
honestly, and this is discovered, the insurers can void your coverage. I personally
had to bite the
bullet and work for a large company when I would have much preferred to work
for myself. But now I
am so thankful because my family does not have to sacrifice – they are
taken care of. It is well worth
the personal sacrifice – and you can follow your dream on your own time!
- Get your financial affairs in order by creating a Last Will and Testament,
a Family Trust (to
avoid money being held in probate for the year after your death) and a Durable
Power of
Attorney (to assign the individual who will mange your financial affairs).
These are difficult
issues, but you cannot wait because once the "softer" signs of HD
affect your thought processes,
you may not want to complete these necessary steps to protect you and your
family from financial
hardship. A lawyer or legal association can help you determine your state's
requirements.
- Get your medical affairs in order by completing a Living Will and Durable
Medical Power of
Attorney. Now is the time to make known your personal desires regarding the
quality of life you
want to maintain if you become symptomatic. Advise your family regarding issues
such as using a
feeding tube, donating your organs, donating your brain to research, and the
use of mechanical life
support. If you procrastinate, and become less competent and unable to make
these decisions for
yourself, SOMEONE ELSE WILL MAKE THEM FOR YOU. Do not put your family through
the heart
wrenching agony of making these end of life decisions. If you procrastinate,
you may not realize the
necessity of these decisions as clearly as you do now. HD affected emotions,
such as fear,
paranoia, lack of trust and blunting may cause you not to care, or you may
not see how these
decisions will affect your future and your family's future. A lawyer or legal
association can help you
understand your state's requirements.
- Begin immediately to eliminate stress from your life. Eat nutritiously and
maintain a healthy
lifestyle. Exercise daily to keep fit, strong and flexible. Read and challenge
your brain to keep it
sharp and limber. Do not overlook your emotional and spiritual well being
either. The better you feel
physically and mentally, the easier it will be to cope positively, if you
inherit HD.
- Immediately educate yourself about the variability of HD symptoms, especially
the "softer"
signs, including the emotional, behavioral and cognitive changes, such as
depression, paranoia,
impulsivity, anger, withdrawal and loss of social inhibition. You must understand
these symptoms so
you and your family can recognize them and cope with them positively. Your
extended family
members should be included as well – share your knowledge and understanding
with them so they
may benefit too.
Created and maintained by Renette Davis. Send comments to Renette by clicking here.
Created: Feb. 8, 2004.
Modified Nov. 28, 2010.